You know, I have tried to write this "prologue" several times, but it seems so maudlin! Widowhood is definitely tragic enough, that I don't want to make it worse. Being blessed with a "Pollyanna" attitude, it really makes me feel better to see the positive side.
I had 27 years of a great relationship with a guy who thought I could leap tall buildings in a single bound. And, since, we really do all have to go sometime, I guess I am lucky he never found out I couldn't.
He was good to the bone, also had an exceptionally positive attitude, a great sense of humor - and could do a mean jitterbug!!
The packing is almost complete - a very difficult thing to do as it represents closing the book on a really great chapter of my life. While packing though, I came across about 20 letters Mike had written to me in the "beginning great heat" of our romance. They were wonderful letters and served to make me feel so good to have had someone in my life who still thought I was the love of his life 27 years later!
So dear friends, while missing him terribly, I have wonderful memories and will try to make this journey fun for everyone. Take care, Ricci
Well, I am so proud of you. I always knew you were special the first time I met you back in Lakewood High and now you have shown me I was right. Looking forward to reading more about your transition to a new adventure. Stay strong and know you are loved. Your BFFL GS
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ReplyDeleteYour words put a lump in my throat, tears in my eyes and joy in my heart that you had the man of your dreams and still have those letters. Keep writing - your blog is fabulous - and we'll see you on the other side of that mountain!
xoxoxox
Mary & Bill
Hang in there Ricci! If there is one person who can get thru this, it's you ( : Lots of love barb rifkin. Xoxo
ReplyDeleteIt was a pleasure meeting you the other day. Best of luck on your journey. Can't wait to hear all about it! Johnnie
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